Frequently Asked Questions

I get a lot of questions about bondage and gear. Where can I find it? How can I meet people? These questions and more will be answered here.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q1: Where can I meet someone into bondage and gear?
A1: Whether you’re looking for a Dom or a sub, I’ve found the Internet to be the best location overall. There are many websites dedicated to bondage and gear out there. Most are free, with some extra features for pay. I recommend Recon.com and Fetlife.com to meet others. Always play safe when meeting people from online, try to set up a first meeting in a public place, such as a restaurant or bar. You can also find local leather and bondage clubs online, where you can meet others in your area, go to play parties, and events.

Q2: Isn’t all that gear expensive?
A2: It has taken me a long time to build up my collection of gear. I’ve found waiting for sales and thrift stores to have quite a bit available at a lower cost. Some online stores can be quite expensive, so shop around. Look for quality gear, not cheap imitation leather gear. The added expense will be worth it in the long run as it will last a lot longer even through intense play. This website has a “Store” option in the menu, which in addition to gear from retail sellers, has gear that I have made.

Q3: How can I be a model/sub/bondage boy on this blog?
A3: At this time, I am not taking on any new models/subs/bondage boys. I am always available for questions. Thank you.

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