Category: General

Cage time for the puppy

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Alphapupphoenix wanted some time alone bound and caged. Before his arrival, he placed himself into his “boy trainer 2.0” chastity device from Mr. S Leather. So, this pup got what he wanted. He was placed into fist mitts, bondage socks, and a muzzle. Everything was chained and locked together to ensure he heard and felt every movement of those chains. Once the gear was on, it was time for him to be locked into the cage. I put blankets and a couple pillows in there for “comfort”. They were still folded when I put them in. When the pup was locked in, he wanted me to help cover him. I simply told him no, that he would have to do it himself. I feel it is important for a bound sub to be able to adapt to the bondage they are in. It is a good learning experience for them. I left him to stir for a couple hours, which made him quite happy. Not all bondage has to be intense play. Sometimes it can be a fun way to relax and zone out for a while.

A few locks to hold the cage door.
A few locks to hold the cage door.
Squirrels keep watch on the hiding pup.
Squirrels keep watch on the hiding pup.
Rested, the pup gets his head scritches for being a good pup.
Rested, the pup gets his head scritches for being a good pup.

Bondage Tip #2 – Communication and Safewords

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Communication is very important in any bondage session. Proper communication can enhance the trust in a BDSM session and will allow the boy to enjoy the session more. How it is done should be worked out before a session begins. Any form of communication chosen should be clear and easily interpreted. Verbal communication should never be in the form of “Yeah” or “Sure”. “Yes SIR” and “No SIR” are much clearer and a more acceptable form of communication. For times when a boy is muzzled or gagged, they can of course no longer speak clearly. My preference is the “three loud grunts” method to communicate. When something is going wrong, they give me three loud grunts. Once I have heard them, I will then figure out what the problem is and correct it. Having them nod their head is a poor method as it is unclear. They may not be able to move their head in their bonds as well.

Safewords

Safewords are also a good idea, though I tend not to use them. A safeword is used as a STOP to a session. I feel that if a safeword is used, I’ve pushed the boy too far and too fast. In that case, I have done something wrong. A safeword should never be ignored regardless, as trust will break down quickly if they are. Make sure the boy picks his own word. He is likely to forget it if you picked it for him. There are other ways to communicate, but remember that whatever is chosen must be agreed upon before things start.

Bondage Tip #1 – Locks

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Locking gear is a favorite of mine and is quite apparent with a quick view of this blog. When you have a lot of locking gear, having things keyed alike is a good idea. It makes it easier to unlock any item in the event of an emergency. It also reduces the problems you might encounter when locking the gear in the first place. It may cost a little more to do, but you'll reap the benefits with easier play. I've found the cost varies from $3.99 to over $6.00 per lock. It all depends on what you're looking for. It is also best to keep at least two or three separate key rings stashed away in case you lose one set. Nothing is as big a turnoff as having to use bolt cutters or a hacksaw to get a boy out of his bonds. Well, unless he is in riveted shackles.