Bondage and Gear by Sir SD Michael
Heavy Bondage, Gear, and More!
I have three leather items for sale at this time. The first is a leather harness. It is an older harness and does need a cleaning. I’m selling it for a friend and is as-is. Price is $25.
The last two items are leather wrist bands that I have made. These have two adjustments and are about 7 3/4″ in circumference at maximum. They are 1 3/4″ wide and black in color. I am selling both for $15.
If you are interested in these items, please contact me via e-mail.
I have many kink interests. This website has covered quite a few of them, but many more remain off the site. My boy has similar interests which makes things quite enjoyable for both of us. I would like to start a discussion about what kinks you, my readers, have. What is it about Leather, Rubber, Bondage, Gear, and Spandex that interests you? For me, it is about how the gear transforms the body, how motorcycle leathers make it seem more “robotic”. I like how rubber makes the body smooth and takes away the more human features. I enjoy wearing diapers, not for its “regressive” nature but how they feel and sound. The crinkly of a diaper gets me hard. The feel of a wet diaper is something else I enjoy. Bondage is a bit different for me than perhaps most. While I always enjoy a bondage session with lots of intense play, I enjoy bondage as a way to relax, to “zone out”. Bondage for me is almost a form of meditation. When I’m bound and left to contemplate, I fall asleep and drift away.
What does gear and/or bondage mean to you? We’d love to hear from you!
Humiliation is a subjective term. Some boys love to be diapered, some love to be their Sir’s urinal, and others love to be bound in public. What is humiliating for one isn’t humiliating for another. Remembering this will help you when the sub you’re playing with wants to be humiliated. Talk with them first, before they are gagged, and see what their humiliation interests and limits are.
Pushing a boys humiliation limits can be a challenge sometimes. With a diaper, for example, they may enjoy wearing one but not wetting one. Forcing them to drink enough liquid to the point they have no choice but to wet the diaper can be humiliating for them. It is a loss of control for them, a loss forced by another. A boy may also enjoy being bound in public, but not gagged. While they are helpless to stop you, gag them in a way that is visible. They will definitely find humility in being gagged in front of others.
Regardless of intentions, you also don’t want to make humiliation into a negative experience, one that turns either the boy or yourself off. Pushing a sub past his limits should be done slowly and with their permission. Doing so otherwise can lead to problems and bad feelings. Having a good connection with the sub can usually make these things go a whole lot easier.
